Friday, July 15, 2011
Is there something wrong with my relationship?
No, nothing is wrong with your relationship, but you need to learn to communicate your feelings better. As I am a guy, and in a relationship right now, I think I can honestly tell you this: guys are stupid. There are times I think I'm doing everything right, and come to find out my girlfriend is upset about something. The reason isn't because I'm not perceptive.. I am actually very perceptive to other people's feelings. But, girls tend to only hint at what their feelings are. Guys aren't good with hints. We need to be told directly how you feel. We need to try to be perceptive to everything, but you can't speak in code. Be straightforward and lay it out like you're talking to a five year old. But, when you do that, you can't come hurling a series of problems at us! That just makes us push away, because usually, we're trying really hard. All the sudden, you're yelling and we feel like you don't appreciate everything you do, so we just kind of ignore you. You have to learn to be diplomatic about it, and take things one at a time.
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